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I know it's been two years after the program, but since I'm a hardcore procrastinator and I wanted to share the story before I write another (or some other) blogpost about Japan, here it is. 

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This post is dedicated to the 40th years celebration of East Asia Student Encounter (EASE) program, held annually by Satya Wacana Christian University (Salatiga, Indonesia) and Kwansei Gakuin University (Nishinomiya, Japan). I am very grateful to be able to join this program both in Indonesia and Japan. But before I jump to my story about what I did in Japan, I would like to give a brief explanation about what this program exactly is. So, as mentioned on the program name, EASE is a program that unite students from Indonesia and Japan. Members will stay together for two whole weeks and join some activities related to the establishment of good relationship between two countries, Japan and Indonesia. EASE will be held alternately every year, Indonesia for every odd years like in 2015 and 2017 and Japan for even years like 2016. To achieve the brotherhood and union of two countries, participants will be doing a culture sharing program, food sharing program, trip to some tourism destinations, paper presentation, homestay and many other activities so they could have a better understanding about culture of two countries. Participants are arranged to stay in one room contains two people from different country which will be changed every day, so they can also learn how to interact and be open minded to people with different background. I never really interested a lot into Japanese pop culture, neither to the traditional culture. My only interest is about the city landscape and the beautiful traditional architecture in Kyoto, other than that is just merely a knowledge. Inspite all, I took the opportunity to join the program, just because I always love to go travelling to many places and experience new things and this program is a way closer to fulfill my interest. Nearly after we finished the program, I fell in love with the culture and society which were bizarrely interesting and slightly different even though it is also an Asian country.
On my second opportunity joining EASE program, I visited Japan, as it always held in turns between Japan and Indonesia every year, with 11 other members and a lecturer. The trip started from August 21st to September 3rd, which felt too short for me. Well, it was a pretty exciting trip because it was my first time going to Japan and I've dreamt of going for years. And by the time it finally happened, I was just all excited and thrilled! So there we were, arrived in KIX early in the morning and directly went to KGU Uegahara Campus in Nishinomiya (approx. an hour from the airport). It was a really nice summer breeze which was not too hot and not too humid, slightly different from what I expected. The city was nice, it has the homey atmosphere, not too crowded and not too quite. What I love the most is how tidy and clean the city was, totally different from Salatiga. The campus itself shows the mixtures of modern and classical architecture, dominantly painted in brown. It gave me such a good first impression.

Kwansei Gakuin University, Uegahara Campus



Oh, by the way, this blog post will not consist of my travel itinerary, transportation fee, accommodation price and food price because it was included in the program fee. So, I will only give a short brief about the trip plus my personal opinion about the country. Long story short, I didn't just stay in Nishinomiya but also visit some other cities like Hiroshima, Kobe, Kyoto and Osaka. Each of them has a special characteristic which were really astonishing. Among those cities, my most favorite city goes to Kyoto. It represents the beauty of Japanese traditional culture, implemented to the city landscape. Every little details in the building was amazing. I feel like thrown back to the emperors era by just visiting the village. Since the city becomes one of main tourism destination in Japan, visitors can easily find kimono rental and walk around the village plus take pictures in front of the famous Kiyomizu-dera. Another thing that I love from Kyoto is of course, matcha or green tea! We can find matcha everything and it taste originally like matcha, a bit different with matcha that I ever taste in Indonesia. I also loving the fact that everything is super walkable and just perfect for sightseeing.

Yasaka Shrine

Higashiyama District

Kiyomizu-dera




Was able to try on yukata or the traditional Japanese clothes and walk around in that. So hard, though!

Cold soba. Not really a fan but worth to try.


Second favorite city goes to Hiroshima. I'm not really sure whether it was really my favorite city or it's just because my trip begun in that city, but a strange (yet beautiful, I don't know how to describe it) comes when I strolled around the city, especially when I visited Hiroshima Memorial Park and Museum, I can feel the atmosphere of massive destruction during World War II. It saddened me more when I saw the terrible pictures of atomic bomb victims. Regardless of what happened over six decades ago, Japanese government has successfully rebuild the infrastructures and brought the economy back to normal. All I can see now is the spirit of peace which being delivered to all people especially to foreigners who come to the city, so everyone can maintain those spirits to prevent another war happening in the future. I guess if you ever visit Hiroshima, it would make sense that the huge impact of how history was made through wars and defeats force us to learn and fathom that it shouldn't happen again now or in the future.
Also, my favorite thing in Hiroshima is the okonomiyaki (or Japanese-style savory pancake)! I found out recently that you can find two different style of okonomiyaki which are Osaka style or Hiroshima style. Since Hiroshima style okonomiyaki became the first thing I tried, I was quickly into that and it was just awesome.


Hiroshima Peace Monument. Was built to commemorate the tragedy and the victims. 


A-bomb Dome. The only original building left after the bombing. 


Crossed the sea to visit Miyajima Island which is very famous for its Itsukushima Shrine.


Hiroshima-style Okonomiyaki

Okonomiyaki in the making

Tried out washoku as well! It is a full-set Japanese style lunch.


The other two cities I visited, Kobe and Osaka were just like normal big cities I saw in other countries. Crowded and all you can see is shops and restaurants everywhere. The feeling you get is more like a westernized part of Japan which slightly dominates the Japanezy feeling. Or I can say that Osaka and Kobe best describe Japanese pop culture and stuffs like that. Not really my favorite, but I did enjoy it too. I spent some more time in Kobe because I had an opportunity to stay with a host family who live in Kobe. It makes me kind of more connected to Kobe rather than Osaka. On top of that, Kobe has this one part of the city called Kitano which is Westerners residence. It was so pretty especially with the gothic English-style buildings all around the area. Also, the port area was also a great place to hangout with some shopping malls as well so it's a on stop hang out place. As a bonus, I went to Himeji Castle with my host family. It's located just beside the city of Kobe so it was such a nice bonus trip.
Osaka, as I mentioned before, is a best description of Japanese pop culture which is more lively and young. It can be seen especially from the areas around Dotonbori where you can find anything quirky yet interesting.

Dotonbori



Shinsaibashi. One of the longest shopping arcade in Japan. It's all tourist everywhere and a great place for shopping. 


Oyakodon

Made our own chopsticks! Super cool!

Ijinkan Museum in Kitano Area

Ramen Taro. One of the best ramen I tried in Japan, and still become my favorite. The best part is that they give you unlimited kimchi for free and the marinated pork meat in the ramen. 一番好き!

Kobe Harbourland at night


Himeji Castle

Me featuring the whole member of my host family


Tried out another washoku with grilled eel. 


Japanese style home dinner

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After all, the trip wasn't just merely a trip. For me personally, the trip became a really effective bonding time with my new friends whom now I call family. Spending the whole two weeks together with various heads was a real deal. It was also such a week full of drama, that I also wasn't able to endure even though I was the student leader that time. Nevertheless, memories were still being made beautifully and I still cherish every now and then. Talk to the people, both my Indonesian and Japanese fellas, hang out together and just tell each other our most favorite moment of the program is just feels amazing. EASE program made us understand how to communicate with people from different socio-cultural background. It teaches me more about how to be more considerate, respecting every ideas given by others, and tolerance despite all differences we have with other people. If life is an unstoppable learning process, that occasion might be one small step in a long-cycle of self-being. 

Here I'll put more pictures other things we did beside the trip as a proof that we weren't just go there to have fun but seriously do works too!

We cooked nasi tumpeng from scratch to introduce our Japanese friends what Indonesian (specifically Javanese) eat to celebrate important events, in this case celebrating the success and unending friendship of EASE. 



Culture sharing party. 



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Is it the same or is there any other sun which will shine on the other day? As far as I know, there is only one sun exist in the solar system, but somehow it brings different colors and vibes everyday. It's been the 15th day of 2018 and my 5th month of living temporarily in Japan. A lot of life-changing experiences happened during these past few months which were exciting and draining at the same time. It feels like the hell of a ride, sometimes, but I do enjoy it eventually. Everything changes very quickly that I vaguely remember every single details of it, it just happened one day and a complete different thing happened on the other day.

In this stage of life, I started to reckon how many changes I made and how far do I grow to be a person, whether every decision I made for the past years has its significance towards my future goals. I do make plans in life, but I feel like 2017 was actually far beyond my planning, not even in my imagination, especially the living in Japan part. I never expected to live my own life, not yet. I was supposed to struggle with my bachelor thesis, do a lot of research and write a bunch of shit so that I can graduate as soon as possible. Well, impulsive decisions make you a little more alive, somehow and I realized that decisions you make every day will guide you to a different stage of your life, whether or not you expect it to be. My ambition to come to Japan as an exchange student give me a longer time to finally realize what I really want to do in the future. I can finalized my targets for the upcoming post-graduation year and details everything I need to prepare for that. Though at some point it became a burden for my parents, some family member and even for myself, I notice that right after I come back to my safe-zone, I knew that I've grown a lot more that I wanted.

Living here, meeting many people teach me how to cherish the moment and make every second of it worthwhile. You have no chance to replay or even rewind the moment. You have rights to choose your priority, which activities you want to do, which people you want to hang out. I realized that I can't just say yes to every options, but I have to decide, be precise and firm to your own stance in order to be attractive and interesting. Meanwhile, I also need to let go of things easily. Don't over impose things beyond your control to be happened because once you don't have access to it, you can't control it. It might just not meant to be yours or not meant to be the part of your experience. Just go with the flow, you are allowed to make targets but just let it be a guidance. Don't overthink to much.
I compare myself to people I met and I realize I need to keep up with them, in terms of hobbies, interest towards one specific things, knowledge, perspective, and fundamental of life. 2018 has to be another turning point of my whole life, determinant to my goals while enjoying the ride without any barriers or expectations. The sun I see today might be the same as the one I saw yesterday and the one I will see tomorrow, but who I am today will be better than who I was then and will be improved tomorrow.

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Cogito ergo sum. I think therefore I am. One of the thoughts of Descartes I had heard long before I went to college, and become more interesting when I learned more about his thinking. Although Descartes can not be specifically said to be an existentialist thinker, I think that his thoughts have influenced a person -especially me- of my being, of my presence in human form in this world. Is it true that human existence as a rational being in this world purely arises from the rationality of the individual itself? And will its existence stop at one point when individuals are tired of rationalizing its existence?
It's been 21 years, 2 months 8 days living in this world and I still have many questions and puzzles about life that I have not been able to solve until now. One of them is that, the objectivity of my existence on this mad world. When the age of 21 is considered a phase in which an individual has been able to be classified as an adult, I still barely feel the vibe of being entitled to this phase. My inner childhood still appear more often than the establishment of thinking and acting. I spend more time bombarding others with questions about a problem I should be able to solve myself. In addition, I also often question what significant things I have done during these 21 years, which bring benefits to others. There is no achievement for it, no event that can be a marker that I have become a useful individual. A starting point that keeps pushing me to ask myself. What have you done today? How significant are your effects to others? How far have you been going this far?
On the one hand, those questions are enough to maintain my existence, I asked therefore I exist. Encourage me to do something more every day. Makes me an individual who (hopefully) is better than the previous day. Maximize every potential second to make it meaningful, not just for yourself but also for others. On the other hand, there is the fear that later in time I will never be enough to answer new questions that continue to emerge, let alone to solve answers to unanswered questions. Time is running so fast, that often I feel I do not have time to relax because relaxing does not make me a productive individual. Badly, there was once a point when all forms of fatigue accumulated and made me stop struggling to find answers. I was silent, even taking a step back, and allowing the ignorance of my self-controlling existence.
Being an adult turned out to be creepy. It's scary not to get enough time to answer all the questions that come up. It is also frightening to understand that in the end we are forced to stop asking, because we know we do not have enough time to find an answer. A dozen years ago I wanted to quickly become an adult, live independently, have authority over myself. Now, stopping or even playing time becomes a more interesting option. It will be fun when we have more time to just relax and keep asking, without fear of running out of time to find answers.
But well, life goes on. It will not stop. As if one day I will fathom every points of how to be an adult.
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Matsuri 祭り(Japanese word for festival) is one best activity to enjoy Japan every time you have a chance to visit the country. Since I am pretty late for summer festival and not yet into winter festival, I feel glad that my dorm manager invited me to see a festival held in Kishiwada city, Osaka. I found out that this festival is the biggest and the most famous Danjiri Matsuri among other similar festival which held all over Japan. Many people even from other prefecture come to Kishiwada to see the Danjiri from many groups of neighborhood area. Generally, this festival becomes a symbol of gratitude from the people towards the Shinto Gods as they get blessings through the harvesting season. Several groups of people will gather as one group representing their district and walk along the street while pulling the danjiri or portable shrine which has been build for several years ago with a really huge cost. Every houses in one district should at least appointed one family member to contribute this event,  regardless age and gender. It means that one danjiri group will contained at least 50 people working together to represent their district with pride. I didn't count exactly how many danjiri was at the festival, but I think it was more than 15 groups.
My dorm manager was very excited that some students managed to see this festival with him because he has been participating in this festival for more than 50 times since he was a little boy living in one neighborhood at Kishiwada City. He proudly depicted his hard work when he was assigned to pull the robe, and continuously upgrading his role as he gets older every year, until he could be in the centre possition of the danjiri. Despite the fact that I only saw the practice session of the groups, I felt very lucky because I can get accompanied by a person who was indeed a participant of the festival. Moreover, my friends and I could freely move all around the city because there were less people there. So we could see the attraction from several different spot, which was amazing. I don't think I can experience such thing if I went there by myself. However, the fact that it was just a practice didn't undermine people's excitement to came over and watch the whole session from 1 pm to 5 pm that day. 
To see people really hustling in order to make the danjiri move astonished me that much. I can really see the value of hard work of Japanese people through this festival. I mean, come on, no one will condemn you when you don't want to participate into this event. Then people were still able to be involve into the festival and let themselves became super exhausted after the whole festival finished. People's participation also proves that Japanese people have a high community-based society. Most of them, not to be stereotyping some people who don't, are really attached into their community and willing to give any kinds of participation to increase the neighborhood's pride. I saw some students, young adults, grandfathers, moms with their babies, even the district leader participating into this festival and make sure that every component of the festival works well. Some people even challenge their defiance by standing, jumping and dancing on top of the danjiri while it was being pulled along the road. It was beyond crazy and dangerous but they let it be. Danjiri festival is also cost expensive, from the making process to the execution, even the post-event when some accident unfortunately happened, for instance a danjiri crashed the electricity pole of crashed someone's house whereupon the district should pay for the penalty. 
As I came to Japan not just merely as an exchange student (or traveller to be exact :P), I also have additional responsibility to complete at least my thesis proposal in order to graduate on time. That's why I am very delighted and grateful at the same time because I can literally observe the cultural and social value from Japanese people, which then processed as their common identity. One other good point to be highlighted is no matter how old and smart you are, if you don't contribute even just a single drop of your sweat to the society, it will definitely means nothing. 

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(Kumpulan puisi M. Aan Mansyur - Tidak Ada New York Hari Ini)
I'm still capturing the moment when I decided to upload this picture on my instagram feed. That was the day when I gave back all my trust to someone who lose it. Unfortunately, everything came to an end, as what I imagined from the very beginning. 
This evening, I am distracted by all boundaries and walls that I built for the past few months. It turned into debris by only a single call, which actually means nothing. I am lost, I am insane, but I know that everything will never be the same as it used to be. 
Even so, I hope that we can grow through what we gone through. Forget about those cheesy pinky promise 'cause it will when it meant to be.

Takarazuka, 01/10/2017. 
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Few days ago, one of my senior in junior highschool passed away after battling for cancer since probably last year (if I'm not mistaken). I wasn't really close to her, never even talk to her face to face, but I knew her condition, from her mother who is also my family doctor, when did she first figure out about it and how she managed to continue her life with treatments. Even it may looks a little inappropriate to retell her stories, her spirit and her passion really inspires me in facing any kinds of problem that could even take your life forever.
Moment of her death made me reflect about myself personally. As a Christian, I believe on the life after death which determined by your acts in life. Then, what goods I have done for 20 years living my life? Am I good enough to be the one placed in heaven? Am I ready to face the death? What will I do if such condition happens to me?
I salute her for being so brave and tranquility to face the death despite the fears she felt. I learn to respect my life more and do more good to people because we will never know when will we die. By doing so, I believe that on the day, I will die peacefully, as a blessing for other people, and become one of those beautiful flowers which picked first. 
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Tidak ada kebenaran yang hakiki. Apa yang menurut saya benar, belum tentu menurut orang lain benar. Semua dinilai secara subjektif, berdasarkan seberapa luas pengetahuan seseorang akan sesuatu. Subjektivitas, sebuah pandangan yang tidak bisa dilepaskan dari seorang individu yang berpikir. Subjektivitas ada sebagai hasil dari kumpulan proses-proses berpikir dan kejadian-kejadian yang dialami oleh seseorang. Proses itu berbaur menjadi satu dan menjadi sebuah pola pikir dalam diri seorang individu. Bagaimana caranya memandang sesuatu, bagaimana caranya menerima sesuatu, semua tergantung pada pola pikir yang mereka gunakan sebagai kacamata mereka.
Subjektivitas, pola pikir, atau apalah itu yang intinya adalah cara seseorang menilai sesuatu, memberi pengaruh besar bagaimana seseorang bertumbuh dan membangun relasi dengan orang lain dalam kehidupan ini. Secara normatif, individu harus mampu bertoleransi dengan individu-individu lain yang memiliki beragam latar belakang. Namun, perlu digarisbawahi bahwa bertoleransi bukan berarti 100% menerima. Menurut saya, bertoleransi lebih kepada membiarkan orang lain menjalankan apa yang dia percayai, selama itu bisa ia pertanggungjawabkan dan tidak mengganggu kepentingan umum.
Tulisan diatas murni berdasarkan asumsi saya, tanpa maksud untuk menyinggung sesuatu apalagi seseorang. Namun, tampaknya asumsi yang sebenarnya telah saya tulis sejak beberapa hari (bahkan bulan, saya tidak ingat) yang lalu ini sedang menjadi sebuah realita saat ini. Sekali lagi, saya menulis ini tidak didasarkan pada tujuan untuk menjatuhkan suatu kelompok tertentu. Ini semua murni curahan hati saya yang terlalu geram dan terlalu malas berkelana membelah samudera media sosial yang sudah terlalu overrated dan banyak dihuni oleh kaum-kaum yang rasanya tidak pernah mendengar atau bahkan mengerti apa itu literasi media. Semua orang berlomba memenangkan pertarungan opini, yang sedihnya seringkali didasarkan pada sesuatu yang hanya mereka baca sekali. Ini yang salah.
Responsif. Hal ini adalah salah satu guilty pleasure yang sulit untuk saya kontrol selama hidup saya. Saya bisa menghitung berapa kali saya mendapat masalah dengan orang lain ketika saya bertindak responsif di sosial media. Rasa ketidakpedulian dan kejenuhan dengan banyak hal yang justru membawa saya pada situasi di mana saya lebih less-responsive dan memilih untuk memikirkannya dalam otak dan jadi pikiran saya sendiri. Menurut saya ini baik, setidaknya saya tidak secara langsung membiarkan opini saya kabur secara liar lewat mulut saya, tapi saya beri dia waktu untuk bermain-main dalam otak saya, berganti pakaian menjadi dirinya yang lebih baik, baru keluar melalui mulut saya. Satu dua kali hal itu saya lewatkan. Tapi namanya manusia (alasan klise) kan tidak luput dari kesalahan, betul?
Kembali ke masalah tidak ada kebenaran yang hakiki dan subjektivitas. Di dunia yang bebas dan tanpa batas, alangkah baiknya jika kita kembali menilai diri kita dan berlaku 'sopan' seperti seorang diplomat ketika kita tidak setuju dengan argumen orang lain. Jangan menjadi orang yang responsif, terlebih dalam media sosial yang bisa dengan bebas dibaca orang lain dan tidak ada jaminan bahwa argumen yang kita buat bisa kita hapus seenaknya. Jangan merasa diri atau kelompok paling benar, karena jika semua orang benar maka tidak akan ada satu orang pun yang tinggal dalam penjara. Segala sesuatu hanya tentang sudut pandang, kacamata yang anda gunakan untuk melihat, serta seberapa banyak hal yang anda ketahui (paling tidak, jika memahami masih terlalu sukar untuk dilakukan). Banyak-banyak lah memaksimalkan fungsi mata dan telinga, kritislah terhadap sesuatu dan jangan biarkan 'kegatelan' tangan dan mulut untuk bertindak responsif menguasai diri anda.
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